How I Overcame Victimhood, Inferiority and Blame

God is the only reason I made it this far: I’ve had it all, I’ve lost it all, and through it all, God is constant in His faithfulness, love and kindness.

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Beware The Dangers of a Victim Mentality

But I am concerned about the adoption of a victim mentality: a mentality that—like a drug—makes you feel good for a while, but then sucks the life out of you.

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Should I Apologize or Not?

A mile down the road I realized that I had probably hurt her feelings with my defensive comment.  I asked her if it did, and she said yes.  Right then, I had to make a choice.

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The Difference Between Spiritual Abuse And Christian Courtesy

In persuasion, I seek to engage your thinking and judgment by giving you helpful data and warm encouragement. In manipulation I seek to bypass your thinking by pushing you to conform to my judgment.

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